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Subject: I'm Gone Date: 18 Jul 2006 01:22:23 -0700 From: jmsatb5@aol.com Newsgroups: rec.arts.sf.tv.babylon5.moderated Readers of this newsgroup have noted, and asked about, the reason why my postings here have been on the steady decline for some months now. The reason is that I have been reading, and thus replying, less than before, because it seems that nearly every thread have a posting by an individual who has dedicated himself to the task of insulting me on a constant basis, on a personal and professional basis. This nearly pathological obsession has manifested itself as, for lack of a better term, the death of a thousand papercuts. Each post is, on its own, as irrelevant and unimportant as he is, but in the aggregate becomes a constant note of insult. He remains in this group not to participate in the discussion, but to find some way to work an insult or derogatory comment about me at every possible opportunity. He is, for lack of a better term, going out of his way to shit on me in a place where he knows I have to read it...because that is his goal, to insult me where he knows that I hang out...because he's too much of a coward to do it to my face. I'm not talking about critical opinions of a show, or disagreements, I'm talking about bald-faced insults, affronts, digs and offense on a personal and professional nature that have no business here. I have discussed this previously with the moderators, who say they are powerless to keep him out, that he has made it clear to them that he does not and will not respect the will of either the moderators or the members of this newsgroup, who he views with utter contempt, as evidenced in the many messages in which he has described the members of this group as "joe worshippers" and terms too vile for me to repeat. He has stated to the moderators that if he is forced to leave, that he will simply join again under a different ISP or a different name, that the group must and will be held hostage to his conviction that the moderators have no authority over him, that he can ignore the purpose of this group, which is in part to provide a buffer zone between me and net-stalkers, and that his right to be here outweighs the right of the group or anyone in that group to keep him out, myself included. A writer has only three resources: time, energy and visceral material, and when those are being spent being pissed off, when every message thread you'd otherwise like to participate in gets hijacked and polluted by a dozen new insults, snide asides or affronts, you just stop reading because life's too short. Since the moderators cannot remove this individual due to his threats to remain no matter their actions, or the intentions or guidelines of this group, it seems that I therefore have no choice but to absent myself from this group. It is for this reason that I have already mainly stopped reading and posting, and the members of this group, who have participated in good faith for so long, deserve an explanation. With luck, my departure will remove this individual's reason for being here, and at least the group can return to a discussion of the pros and cons of the show without his presence, because my absence will have taken all the fun out of it. jms